Wednesday, April 28, 2010

The Ait Khabbash Berber Wedding

During Berber Ait Khabbash Weddings people get to enjoy the good food and the music. They get to sing or play instruments and at the same time meet friends or family members that they haven't seen in a long time. But the main purpose of the wedding is to celebrate a new chapter of the couple's life and hope for a happy marriage to a couple. During this celebration the groom gives presents to his new wife just like in most wedding ceremonies.

Before we get to the fun part there is work that is needed to be done before the ceremony. For example the women must cook the food for a lot of people. Food such as couscous, and tagine and the bread that must go with the tagine. To make all that delicious food the women need wheat to flour make flour. The process may take several days. Even though with all the work to do, the women like to prepare for weddings because the women get to see friends and family members they haven't seen in a long time. While the women work, they socialize and sing with each other and even have new friends from the bride's or groom's family. The only job that men participate in preparation to the wedding is to put up the tent. The groom choses 3 men from his family to put up the tent where the celebration will take place. It's mostly the women who prepare the wedding.

In the Ait Khabbash culture it's mandatory for the groom to buy presents for the bride. The groom buys tea, henna, jewelry, and clothes. During the ceremony the bride may wear some pieces of jewelry given to her. The groom also must buy the new clothes because the bride will throw away all her clothes and will wear the new clothes once she is married to show that she is married. In Ait Khabbash traditions the groom must buy a bed and closet for their room together. If the couple was ever to be divorced, the bride must give back all the grifts.

During the Ait Khabbash weddings food is of course served. The food served is much like the Moroccan food. Couscous and different tagines are served. Bread as usually is served with the tagines. For those who do not know what is couscous and tagine is, tagine is sort of like a stew. Couscous is under the rice and pasta category. Couscous is served with meet and vegetables like carrot, squash, pumpkin, chickpeas, and sometimes with potatoes and cabbage. The women always cook more than enough food for everyone to eat.

After everyone has finished eating it's time for the music. The only instrument that I know the Ait Khabbash use is the allum which is a framed drum. Besides the drum the music is made by singing and tapping the tea cup or a table if it nearby. The music is mostly played by women since there are as many as 4x more women than men. The music makes a nice atmosphere for the wedding.

The bride is practically a new person once she is married. During the wedding the tammacat brushes and braids her hair. Tammacat means "woman who brushes". For someone to be a tammacat they must be married and have never divorced. The tammacat must also have grown children. The bride must wear a white gown called aruy. The white represents the purity and blessings. Even though not many Ait Khabbash brides don't wear a red cloth with yellow horizontal and diagonal lines it is used so that there are no stains on the bride's dress. Also the bride must wear a wool belt made by her mother. the belt shows that one day the bride will become a mother. These wedding traditions have been pass down to each Ait Khabbash bride.

Why should we preserve Berber weddings? We should preserve Berber weddings because the Berbers have followed the same traditions have been passed down from their parents to them and why should we force them to change their traditions to be like ours? If I put myself in their position I wouldn't want anyone to change my culture that my ancestors have followed. I'm sure you wouldn't want anyone else to force you to change your culture to be like theirs. How would you feel if the traditions that your ancestors followed were gone?

I explained the traditions of the Ait Khabbash Berbers' weddings. For example the gifts given to the bride, what the bride wear, how to fix the bride's, the food, where it takes place, and the music. These are different for each different types of Berbers. I explained the traditions of the Ait Khabbash Berbers' weddings. The Berber weddings have many tasks and traditions that have been followed for many generations.

Monday, November 30, 2009

Berber Culture:Transportation

A very important aspect of Berber culture is transportation. The Berbers use mules besides feet as transportation like the way we use cars in the city.The mules help the Berbers to import and export things. Mules more helpful to the Berbers because Berbers mostly go on trails where cars can’t go because its too narrow, which is why mules are more helpful. Also the cars need gas and gas stations are very very far from villages and to get gas they have to pay for it in cash and in Berber villages they exchange instead using money to get what they need. That's why on our trip on Week Without Walls we had to walk most of the time and ride mules. During the whole trip we only saw one car (besides Imil, because it had roads and tourist).

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Me, Myself, and I

Hi everyone, my name is Rachida and I go to an international school in Morocco. I am Moroccan and my first language is English. I previously lived in the United States of America. When I came to Morocco, I learned how to speak French and Arabic. In the international school I made friend from Europe, Asia, and North America, which is a very wide variety of cultures. I really love my country because you have from the high snowy mountains to the burning hot deserts. I have discovered new experiences and tastes. I feel like a tourist or like a stranger in my own country because I keep learning new things like the beautiful sights and I am still discovering the charms of Morocco. But there is one very important thing to me and its not my relatives or my country its my friends. My friends are what help me get through a hard day at school and each one is special and funny. All of my friends are very different but all similar. They are like a sip of water to me in the burning hot dessert.

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Welcome to My Blog on Berbers in Morocco

For five days I was up on the High Atlas Mountains with my classmates in seventh grade to visit several Berber villages. My class and I learned about seven fascinating topics while the other students who couldn't come wrote about the High Atlas Mountains. The trip was to see and experience of the berbers who lived in the different villages and the information will help us with our Berber Project.

Welcome to My Blog on Berbers in